Sunday, March 25, 2007

Spatters gets a little culture

Classical music is something I know very little about.  It was never played in our house when I was growing up and we never really had any exposure to it at all.  Then I married one of the members of the ASO chorus.

Over the last few years I've been to a handful of symphony concerts to see my wife perform.  Usually on a Thursday or Friday night because Saturdays were sold out.  Except for one show, I was by myself every time.  So there I was, tired from a long day at work, sitting alone and listening to music that I had never heard before.  It's not hard to imagine me maybe nodding off a time or two.

Then along comes John Adams and his violin concerto with the lead violin played my Midori.  Once again I was alone, since no one would go with me, and sitting in row K of the orchestra pit - horrible place to sit.  This piece of music rocked my world.  I sat there fascinated for 35 minutes.  If you want to hear a sample of it you can find it at Adams' website earbox.  Just search through his works and click on Violin Concerto(1993).

During the intermission I hooked up with a friend who was there and we snagged some seats in the loge for the second set. Once again I was floored by the music. I may not have enjoyed the second and third pieces quite as much if I had been alone.  Sitting next to a true music fan helps a little sometimes.

So finally, after 3 years of going to the symphony, I have been truly moved by a piece of music.  There were other concerts I enjoyed, but nothing that had me up at 8:30 on a Sunday morning looking for sound bytes of that first piece so I could remember being there.

A little late in life, but I may just be starting to get it.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

That Red Dress

Last night my wife and I went to a black tie fundraiser for our local hockey team's charity foundation.  After 45 minutes of panic, but no fighting, about no being able to find the tickets we started to get ready to go.  The problem with wearing a black tuxedo in our house is that it suddenly becomes a challenge to get out the door without being covered in white cat hair. 

While I was meandering about the house trying to kill a little time, my wife put on her dress.  The red dress she was wearing when we got married.  After I helped her zip up I started getting myself ready to go.  I walked back into the bedroom and saw her again.  That's when all the memories of our wedding came flooding back to me.

I know it's only been two and a half years since the wedding, but seeing that dress brought it back like it was my wedding day: The happiness, the craziness, trying to hold back a tear and a cheese eating grin at the same time while saying "I do" and "I will" in all the right places.

That day was the most special and happy day of my life and sometimes it only takes a little thing to bring it all back.